Letter
from Msgr. Schaedel for bulletin of April 1, 2001
Dear
Parishioners,
Well,
here we are in the fifth week of Lent.
Next week is Holy Week. The
schedule of Holy Week Services is listed elsewhere in this bulletin. It seems as if Ash Wednesday was yesterday! April is here. Where does time go?
To my
way of thinking, Lent at Holy Rosary has been going very, very well. Attendance at our weekday Masses and the
Friday Way of the Cross has been very good.
Your generosity to the weekly second collections for various good causes
has been outstanding—as usual. We had a
good number of people, including Holy Rosary parishioners, at the Lenten
Penance Service last Sunday at Sacred Heart.
And the
attendance and participation in our Wednesday evening adult education series,
Spaghetti and Spirituality has been outstanding. I had hoped for about a dozen folks to participate. For the past two weeks we have had about 45
people there. It proves a point—people
are hungering to know more about our wonderful Catholic Faith.
Friday
evening I had the wonderful privilege of celebrating the 50th Wedding
Anniversary Mass for Henry and Santa Bayt.
What a wonderful witness of fidelity and Catholic Faith! Hank and Santa are faith-filled and faithful
members of Holy Rosary Parish. You and
your family are a gift to us all. Thank
you! (Son Mike is our faithful usher
and “my bodyguard” at the 12:15 p.m. Mass every Sunday too! Thank you, Michael.)
As you
know, I’ve often said that an essential part of our preparation for Easter is
the Sacrament of Penance. I encourage
everyone—not just the “big time sinners—to receive this wonderful sacrament
during Lent.
This
brings me to another topic. The
Indianapolis Star ran an article about the Sacrament of Penance in the Saturday,
March 17, issue. Many people, who were
upset by the article, have contacted me either here at the parish or at the
chancery office. One lady, Mrs. Debra
Wright, wrote an excellent letter of response, which was printed later that
week. You go, girl! I’m going to comment on this article here:
The
title of the March 17th article in The Indianapolis Star was “Few
Confessions: The age-old practice of
recalling one’s sins in front of a priest is waning.” No it isn’t. That has not
been my experience in recent years. In
fact, it’s just the opposite.
The
article begins by stating that not as many people go to confession today as
they did “a century ago.” It may
surprise you, but I wasn’t around in 1901, but I suppose that might be true. And, yes, the statistics no doubt would show
that fewer people approach this sacrament as compared to thirty or forty years
ago. But my own experience tells me
that more people are beginning to “come back” to confession. In other words, the downward trend is
reversing itself.
I noted
this in parishes where I served previously.
The last two parishes where I was assigned (Saint Monica and Saint
Malachy) were becoming “mega-parishes.”
We had all kinds of new families moving in each month. Lots of young families and singles. In one parish, we had to expand the time
allotted for confession each weekend.
Penance Services during Lent or Advent are well attended in places where
I assist in hearing confessions. Our
Catholic school children are no longer brought to confession in “forced
marches.” It’s optional. But they come—in droves. Three of us heard confessions at Central
Catholic a week ago. We thought they
would never stop coming. What a nice
problem to have!
I admit
that the numbers “ain’t what they used to be,” but I also think we are getting
back on track. Why did this
happen? I think there are several
reasons. Society and general (and yes,
even the Church, sad to say) has downplayed the reality of guilt and sin in our
lives. Years ago the non-Catholic, Dr.
Menninger of the famous Menninger Clinic, wrote a book called Whatever Happened
to Sin? In short, he said that we
rationalize most things away these days.
Nothing is a sin anymore. It’s
always somebody else’s fault. Comedian
Flip Wilson had the same line, “The devil made me do it.” No sin—no need for confession.
People
often talk about or joke about “Catholic guilt.” They claim to have been victims of a time when their Catholic
upbringing made them feel overly guilty over just about everything. I don’t know whether I was lucky in
parents—or teachers—or parish priests—or all three—but I never felt that
way. Guilty, yes. Appropriately guilty, yes. What kid is perfect? But never to this state of paranoia some
people describe. I cannot speak for them. But it was not in my experience as a child
or teenager growing up Catholic.
Enough
of this for now. I could go on for the
length of this entire bulletin, but we have other things to publish. I’ll write more about the Star article in
weeks to come. Suffice it to say, I
don’t resonate with much of it at all.
Faithfully
in God’s Providence,
Msgr.
Schaedel